The season where all your past myseries are brought to life is finally here! How do we navigate through? Are we bowing into pressure? Dear foot soldier? 

While we understand that valentine's Day comes to crystallize the worst part of being single, the pressure to assure the society that you're just fine without a partner by your side is crazy. Unknowingly, it is the season where you will find yourself explaining to people how contented and fulfilled you are while on the real sense, it's purely unnecessary Pressures. 

The society expects people to conform to their timeframes of when to stop being single, when to get married, when to give birth, When to add another Baby, When to ,God! they'll dictate even your death! Society can be unforgiving. 

It is unimaginable that a Woman or man ripe of age can choose to stay single and happy. A mature person who is single is mostly considered unfortunate, unloved and unfocused in life. The constant urge to push back against this stereotype often gives them little or no room to say that sometimes being single is wonderfully amazing, fulfilling, character-enhancing and all sexy. Yes, Singleness can sometimes get lonely, depressing and simply sucks but it's a choice and all choices have their setbacks. Being single openly means you can't talk about your situation lest they brand you a bitter singleton whom people can't stand in their lives.Sick!

The world is harsh to the singles most especially during seasons such as Valentine's but dear single person, Does your state make you happy? Are you happily single? Yes? Perfect! Do not lower your guard for a one day pressure, folk. 

Strong! Strong! 

On this day, take yourself out for a movie, grab a drink at your favourite café, smile at strangers and go back home. Your Day will have counted. And just incase no one told you today, the singlehood fraternity is proue of you!